Men will always deny that men make up the majority of offenders in violent crime, sexual violence, domestic abuse, and so many other forms of violence. They’ll bring up the fact that women commit crimes too, as if anyone ever denied that. Yes, women commit crimes, but let’s not pretend the rates are even remotely comparable.

PS: The “not all men” talk is just a way of dodging accountability.

So there’s this study that says when they asked in a survey, 95.1% of men admitted to recently using at least 1 tactic to get sex from a woman who they knew didn’t want sex.

Some info on the study: ~2900 men, aged 18-34, various races and ethnicities, anonymous survey

So, the tactics range from “saying what you think she wants to hear” to “holding her down and forcing her”. Every time I reference this a man responds with “saying what they want to hear isn’t as bad as rape! That doesn’t count!” But what says you? I don’t think it’s “as bad” obviously. BUT I think they both require the same mindset. And that mindset has to be “I’m entitled to this woman’s body more than she’s entitled to the right to tell me no.” You have to fundamentally believe that to some degree to keep asking after the first no right? Like if you respect women as individual human beings capable of making choices for their own bodies, then how could anyone think asking a second time to try to change her mind is ok? I married the first and only man I’ve ever been with, who when I said no, one time, consistently lost his boner, made us snacks and put on a show to not only let me know it’s ok for me to say no, but that he also has zero interest in changing my mind. 95% of men think they should be allowed to at least try to change our minds and it’s sickening to me. Is my trauma making me hypersensitive to consent/coercion or are 95% of men seeing us as sex objects incapable of making decisions for our own bodies? Is it something in between?

Finding this study made me think “finally! Real entail evidence that shows closer to the real number or predatory men!” Just for men to tell me it’s not inherently predatory to attempt to coerce a woman.

Boy with 'hatred for women' found guilty of attempting to murder girl at Norfolk school

I mean, let the supernatural realm handle their spirits. 🔮

It seems like every subreddit imaginable gets their fair share of unashamed pornbrained men that comment their foul desires, masturbation habits, or obvious brainwashed behaviour that objectifies or sexualizes whatever the post or photo may be. Could be the most innocent, innocuous thing.

I’ve been having so much fun pointing out their obvious addiction and shaming them for subjecting people having to see their nasty ass pornbrain thinking. Anytime they so much as try to clap back in some way I just tell them,

“Go on, go watch some porn.”

It drives them absolutely insane ♥️

I get such a rush reminding them that women’s aversion of them is completely self inflicted ♥️

"After finishing lunch, my husband took his plate and cutlery and put them in the sink, for the first time I didn't have to do it myself!

Sure, I still have to go and wash the dishes now, but ladies what a phenomenal man 🥹 this reminded me why I love him so much ❤️”

Most online conversations among married women are like this.

I’m convinced that this is a form of collective madness and one day I’ll wake up and it will all be over.

Males... "you better shut the fuck up about that or I will abuse you harder. You wanna be like the women in Afganaistan? "If we didn't like you you would all be in chains". Real quote. From a male.

I could never imagine looking at the elderly, or children and thinking.. "hey I could beat their asses in a fist fight and enslave them​".

You ever had that thought, as a woman? No, didn't think so. Me neither.

Men say things like... "you want equal rights? well how about equal lefts?" In other words. . "fist fight me for them".

Like imagine being such a pathetic bully... that your mindset is... "haha weaklings... I can beat you up and will!!! And I will feel great about bullying and beating up people smaller than me!"

"Protectors" my ass.

I don't know how males aren't ashamed of themselves.

How are they not ashamed? But walk around with their false sense of superiority? Maybe they know damn well what they are.... and that is the source of their fragile ego's.

I fail to understand why men come on here to comment, insert their opinion and argue about why they are right. The same men who will post on reddit asking why this community exists yet they go and watch weird porn on Reddit but god forbid they see the anger we feel, the abuse we go through, the challenges we face because of men. I almost wish we could ban them all together but I know that’s a pipe dream. You’ll see the “good guys” commenting here claiming how good they are because they are commenting here, despite nobody asking, wanting or liking their opinion.

For all the men lurking, commenting and inserting your opinion on WOMEN dedicated subreddit then YOU ARE THE PROBLEM.
End rant.

I work in a dense metro area and witness males adjusting "themselves" in public daily, sometimes multiple times a day. Some try and fail at hiding it while others are openly doing it regardless of how many people are around them. Maybe this is too niche or too much of a personal pet peeve of mine.