r/AskSeattle • u/IkbenBoterham • 8h ago
Recommendation Breaking Lease Due To Toxic Roommate, Need Advice
Hey there, kind of just putting this to the void because I'm very stressed and need advice. Apologies for rambling.
I moved to Seattle from out of state along with my girlfriend a few months ago, and we ended up leasing an apartment with an at-the-time friend of ours who we'd known and trusted for a while. Things were great until two month ago when our roommate suddenly quit their job, leaving my gf and I barely scraping by on making sure everything is paid and having some food in our mouths, with both of us having to tap into what little savings we had left over from the move.
My gf and I are looking to break the lease on our current apartment and move somewhere else, but finding a new place is not what we need advice on. The main thing we need advice on is what we may be liable for as our roommate has shown no signs of looking for a job or willingness to pay us back the part of the rent that they owe us, but we can't stay in this apartment much longer without all three of us being at risk of an eviction and several months worth of unpaid rent in debt.
The one thing I know we'd be liable for is a 1.5x month of rent lease termination fee, but I'm worried there could be more.
Roommate has been belligerent (not to the point of assault but I want to be away from them before something like that happens) on a couple occasions in the past month, most recently slamming a door loud enough to make our ears ring after we asked them to be quieter in the later parts of the night as I have to wake up early for work and my gf has pretty bad sleep issues. Roommate half-ass apologized days later by saying that they were on acid and handled the situation poorly.
Again, apologies for rambling, but any advice would be greatly appreciated.