Can harmonious Mercury synastry aspects be "cancelled out" when my Mercury is combust (0°27ā from the Sun)?
My natal Mercury is combust (itās tightly conjunct the Sun at just 0°27ā distance in Libra, 10th house). In synastry with a specific person, we have several strong, harmonious Mercury connections.
However, in reality, I struggle immensely around them. Because of anxiety, I canāt speak calmly, express my thoughts freely, or stay attentive and remember what they are saying. On top of that, Iām currently living in a foreign country trying to learn the language, and my brain just freezes - I forget all words on the spot, end up feeling frustrated with myself, and just stay silent with a total "brain fog."
Can harmonious synastry aspects be completely "cancelled out" or overridden by personal anxiety, stress, and a combust Mercury (especially combined with a language barrier)?