“Im so tired of people in the horse world body shaming, but all people that weigh less than me are skinny fucking sticks.” Like??? Please tell me Im not the only one upset by this.

Now. I’m not advocating for AQHA. I think they’re icky as an org since the whole slaughter stance thing back in the day and not trying as hard as the jockey club to minimize slaughter. however, look at their show earnings. You get big money in futurities and sire sweepstakes. I get the idea of how it’s funded by the sire owners themselves partially, but how is rodeo and aqha batting so heavy with earnings while basically no other breed organizations can come close? why can’t others replicate?

He’s a 4 year old ottb. I’m in hunter/jumper and am interested in adopting him.

I’m concerned about his walk. I could be wrong but I feel like his hind legs kinda bow out?

Hello everyone! I'm putting myself out here with a sensitive topic (literally) since barely anyone ever talks about this.

I have one bigger, more sensitive labia minora that is causing me discomfort during my rides, aswell as i develop pimples/bumps down there (yes on my vagina). I've had this issue for a while now but have never found anything online and only now gathered the courage to ask if anyone else has/had this issue? This year I've been working on my seat alot so i don't believe that is the problem.

Some days it's more sensitive than others where I can't even sit my canter due to the discomfort and have to ride in half-seat so there's no friction. It doesn't hurt. Just extremely tender/aching. To make matters more annoying I ride alot of long trail rides, which often means I can't enjoy my ride to the fullest because of this issue.

I have noticed that my horse his gates might be contributing to this problem of mine. I rode my dad's horse a few days ago and had no problem sitting the canter, no discomfort at all, when I switched back to my own horse it returned.

(*cough cough* Yes I am minor and I have let my mom know about this issue but frankly it doesn't concern her that much so I've resorted to asking strangers on the internet *cough cough*)

Do yall think this is a hygiene issue? Something with my horse's gates? My seat? Or something else? Riding with pads doesn't help in the slightest but only seems to make it worse. I've tried different saddles too but it doesn't have an effect either.

Please lmk what you guys think, I'm so tired of this problem man🥲 I just wanna be able to sit my canter without discomfort

Seriously, some of you need to get off your high horses (pun intended loll).

Someone posts a riding video and suddenly they’re the worst rider you’ve ever seen and actively ruining their horse. Someone asks about conformation and apparently their horse is built like a shopping cart with three wheels. Post a video of your horse moving? Congrats, he’s lame in 3 legs, has arthritis, and probably also has kissing spine.

And GOD FORBID the OP tries to provide some context. That’s just making excuses, obviously, 50 downvotes immediately.

I’m all for horse welfare and constructive criticism, but holy shit, some of you act like you’re personally responsible for saving every horse on the internet. The superiority complex in this sub is unreal in here.

Half the comments aren’t even advice. It’s just people competing to see who can be the most condescending.

Does anyone else find this community ridiculously judgmental, or is everyone just used to it at this point?

I'm the head trainer in charge of a small hunter/jumper focused program, mainly consisting of warmbloods. I've had a thoroughbred here and there, and I had a new one join recently. I had my hesitations as in general they have been difficult in the barn, and for one reason or another radiate nervous energy in the barn. Now, my entire background and start was on thoroughbreds, they made me the rider I am. I just don't ever remember the ones we had behaving like the ones that I've had in my program recently. Every single one I've had (including the new one) has some kind of neurotic stall behavior, whether is be weaving all night long, or pacing and walking in circles, they just manage to keep themselves so wound over seemingly nothing. I have nothing against them, I was excited about this new one, but man is it hard to get on with him after riding some of the warmbloods. Every small noise, movement, really anything, sets him off. He can go from the most relaxed lovely trot to exploding over the roof making a small sound. He will run in turnout and scream whinny for hours, while surrounded by horses standing and relaxing. This is exactly the kind of behavior some of the previous displayed.

I'm just looking for insight and advice. What can I do to keep him more relaxed. I know thoroughbreds in general are more sensitive and hot etc etc.

I'm just looking for more first hand thoughts and experiences, what kind of think outside the box ideas worked? How can I help him be more comfortable and settled? In our rides, he even seems to just hold himself in such a stiff "on the muscle" way, like he's ready to explode any moment.

I guess I'm just looking for other perspectives. Thank you in advance.

Preface by saying - he's been scoped and treated for ulcers, he's on maintenance sucralfare. Turnout all day. Good hay and very little grain. Basically all the things that would come to mind right away have already been covered.

This probably sounds like a funny question, but I’m genuinely asking lol.

I’m an adult beginner who’s been riding for a little over a year, taking lessons twice a week. I’m comfortable at the walk and trot, can canter, and have started jumping small courses. But lately, I’ve been wondering whether I’m just fundamentally bad at this sport.

I feel like I’m constantly struggling with things I should know how to do by now. Whether it’s recognizing the wrong canter lead, controlling a horse that’s getting too strong, maintaining my position, or keeping a horse straight through a line of jumps, something always seems to go wrong. Heck, I’m even still struggling to make sure I’m on the right diagonal. :/

I’ve had a string of particularly discouraging lessons recently, and while I occasionally have a good ride, it feels like the bad ones by far outnumber the good. I’ve also tried different instructors, so I can’t really attribute everything to one teaching style!

I know riding is difficult and progress isn’t linear, but I’m starting to wonder whether there’s a point where you have to acknowledge that you might just not have a natural aptitude for something.

I genuinely love horses and want to be a good rider, but I’m getting increasingly frustrated with myself. I think my trainers are frustrated and confused by how slow I am at picking things up, too. I see other riders progressing, and I feel like I’m struggling with the same basic issues over and over again.

So my question is: Is it actually possible for someone to just be bad at riding, despite consistent lessons and genuine effort? Are there people who simply never become competent riders?

I’m not looking for reassurance or people telling me that everyone progresses at their own pace. I’m genuinely interested in hearing honest perspectives, especially from instructors or people who’ve been riding for years. Have you ever encountered someone who just couldn’t seem to get it, no matter how hard they tried?
Thank you!!!

So basically I’ve been consistently riding at my barn for about 3.5 years now and have been riding for about 6. The barn is non profit and not as expensive as others which is why I chose it. But I feel like they are holding back my skill. This is the first year I’m allowed to show and it’s Iea walk trot 😒 when I canter in lessons. I feel like such a loser because I’m a senior in high school and only doing walk trot when I feel like I could be doing bigger things by now. I still am not jumping yet and they are showing no signs of helping me work up to it just the same things I always do in my lessons. Long story short I feel like if I went to another barn I could actually level up my skills.

So I just got a property in Maine. It comes with a barn (though I wouldn’t use it for livestock) and rotational grazing fields. There is a ~3 acre field and another 10 acre grazing fields. It has access to ATV trails (length unknown but at least 30 miles combined). I would start with a few run in shelters, eventually looking to make a full shed row barn. There is grain, hay, tack, and shaving storage in the barn. It would be full care, you provide grain. I’ve worked at 5 barns under 6 owners for a combined 10 years. What would be a fair price to charge for this?

Yesterday the barn owner asked me if I could feed the stallions hay we have two 3-year-old Dutch harness horse x German warm blood stallions and they are super sweet their names are Truffle and Tulin as I was feeding trying to feed Tulin I was getting tense because I seen videos of stallions attacking for no reason (e.g Sox the stallion) and I got a little bit scared but he didn’t do anything. But I’m here wondering does anyone have a small or big fear of stallions after seeing people be irresponsible with them

Also heres a picture of them as yearlings playing

Free Spirit Equestrian recently listed two draft crosses for sale, her asking price is 60k for one and 50k for the other one. They’re Amish-bred, unpapered draft crosses that w/t/c, and trail ride. They’ve also been used in her lesson program. They aren’t trained in a specific discipline, and based on the sale videos, they plod around the arena with most trot to canter transitions cut out.

The part that bothers me is the way she presents these prices to her audience with such authority, that this is simply what horses cost now and buyers should consider themselves lucky to find a deal. To add to the greed, she’s now getting into the auction business and is hosting her own auction next year. If buyers become convinced that mid-five-figure prices are simply what it takes to buy an ordinary riding horse, that benefits sellers and auction businesses trying to move horses at those prices.

And here’s a side note I can’t get past: she recently purchased a reining performance horse with strong bloodlines and elite training for $50k. Yet she’s asking more for these draft crosses…

When large equestrian accounts repeatedly promote these prices as standard, they contribute to an environment where ordinary horses become financially inaccessible to ordinary people. Every time the baseline gets pushed higher, more aspiring owners are priced out of horse ownership altogether.

Horses are already expensive enough. We don’t need influencers with financial interests in selling horses and running auctions convincing everyone that a basic riding horse should cost as much as a well-bred, highly trained performance horse.

I'm looking into buying a KWPN Dutch Warmblood gelding with some serious bloodlines. He's by Chacco-Blue and has been competing at the 1.45m level with potential to move up.,

I've purchased horses directly from the owners before I found this one through a private broker he checks most of my boxes. He's got a solid competition record and looks great in the videos I've been sent. The asking price is pretty steep but that's expected for a horse with this kind of breeding and experience. The broker has been helpful so far. Sent over competition records and paperwork, videos, live calls with the horse gave me the Kibu connection even sent medical record of the horse and was upfront for everything.

My main concern is that I've only dealt with the broker and haven't spoken to the actual owner.I know a PPE and proper sale contract are a must. I'm just not sure how much checking people normally do before getting to that stage.

Would you guys insist on speaking with the owner first or is working with a broker who has a good reputation enough? Don't want to be that buyer who makes everything a headache but I'd rather ask now than regret it later lol.

Hi everyone! My mom and I are both lifelong equestrians who take one big trip a year & I’m looking for recommendations. For reference we’ve ridden multi-day treks already in Iceland, Patagonia, and North Carolina, other fast paced rides in Oregon, Colorado, and Madeira. We’re both advanced riders, comfortable with all gaits and terrain (rivers, roots, rocks, through herds of guanacos, we’ve done it).

This year we’re looking for something luxurious, relaxing, and horse-centered! Current prospects are central/western europe or western canada/US. My mom would like something with a spa/treatments available, and I want something that centers horse culture/where it’s not just an option. We both want rides that are not simply nose-to-tail, and include all gaits. Must be easy to get to from the US (i.e. one layover at most & <10hrs total).

We don’t mind moving locations, but this year, are looking for beautiful accommodations instead of camping. Bonus points if we could hike/there are mountains nearby. Small groups are fine, but we’re also open to arranging private tours. Let me know if there’s anything that blew you away!

Picture of our herd in iceland for tax :)

As an equestrian hunter/jumper I'm currently horseless and basically if you give me unlimited access to an animal with four legs, I will teach it how to jump over things!

I taught my childhood dog jumping and I made an agility course that he excelled with. He was a huge fan of taking jumps, and he even independently would choose to jump over obstacles in our yard and the woods when I would hike with him! I made a number of unusual obstacles that he enjoyed. Jumping through a swing on the swing set. Jumping over my legs. Hopping over a chair. I would point at anything and tell him to jump and he would just do it! He was thrilled.

Even when he was 12 years old (tibetan terrier) and he went to the vet, she exclaimed over how well muscled he was! I told him that he was an agility course dog. She loved that.

I had a German Shepherd mix for over a decade, I tried teaching him agility obstacles, but he was much too fast and overly excited for it. I removed the obstacles before he got the chance to injure himself! But he was game for it. He also broke a few things before I decided to move on to a different task 🤣

These days I have a young cat who is a supreme athlete. She requires lots of play time every day to burn off that energy. We play fetch a lot.

Last night I became inspired to stack some objects in my bedroom and make a training course for her 🤣 I threw a toy for her, she jumped over the jump, and then I called her back and she got a treat. She jumped over it maybe 10 times before my other cat came in and started hogging the treats.

But yeah, that's just me! My lifelong love of jumping extends to any animal in my vicinity who is currently bored, has a bit of energy, and has four paws capable of taking obstacles on!

Anybody else siphoning their enthusiastic jumper dreams on two other animals? How's it been going! 🤣

My mare has pulled a chunk out of her mane, and it’s gotten so much shorter since getting her (first pic is now, second is when I got her in February). I’m addressing her itchiness, and have her on some skin and coat supplements. This chunk happened while it was braided, so I’m hesitant to braid again. At this point, I’m tempted to just roach and start over. But I desperately want it to be long and healthy again. Any tips would be so appreciated!

I started to mix alfalfa pellets into her feed about six months ago. Throughout the summer I rode her once or twice a week because it was pretty hot. Since its getting cooler I've started riding her 3 times a week now as of 2 weeks ago. She's a good horse who can run in and out of this pasture as she pleases, and she gets 24/7 hay. Her butt looks a bit blocky and I thought that would go away, but only her belly seems to get big.

Does anyone get awful trailering/loading anxiety? Not their horses, them? How did you chill the heck out?

I don’t own a trailer, but board. I own two horses. A Mustang I gentled myself and a 4 year old who I got untouched a couple years ago. Since I don’t own a trailer it is VERY important to me that mine will get on anything. Beggars can’t be choosers after all. Over the years I’ve been able to practice with the trailers of fellow boarders and both of mine self load fairly automatic. My Mustang usually hesitates for a split second then gets on. My young horse wants to be the first on. I should genuinely have nothing to worry about.

Anyway, I don’t get to practice much and we tend to stay on property and the surrounding trail network (no hauling needed). But my young horse is going to a trainer for a few months and the trainer is kind enough to come pick him up this weekend. For whatever reason I get the worst anxiety every time I’m faced with loading them. I’ve literally being loosing sleep worried he won’t get on. We practiced with a friend’s trailer tonight and despite repeatedly watching my horse load himself up over and over again, my heart rate was so high my watch kept thinking I was working out and I genuinely am worried he won’t get on the trailer Sunday. Which is silly.

Obviously when I got each of them, trailering was not a known skill. So I don’t know if it’s flashbacks to when it really WAS dicey. But it hasn’t been something neither had refused or even questioned for a very long time. Does anyone else get awful anxiety about loading horses? How do you calm YOUR nerves down?

For an assessment I have to write about this horses shoe and pad, but for the pad I can only find Open Toe Caudal Support Pads and I’m not sure if this is the correct name or if there is a different term for it.

Hi everyone,

I recently started some groundwork/ liberty work with my OTTB. He is 8 and I have had him since he was 5.

We’re late starting and while we have competed a lot and there are no behavioural and in saddle issues requiring groundwork, I wanted to start Liberty and groundwork as a way for us to bond and connect!

So far he’s really enjoying it … he likes it when he is challenged and has to figure things out but loves it EVEN more when he gets lots of pats and praise for doing something right.

So far we can do the following on a rope with a halter (with no pressure - it’s just there as a just in case as we don’t have a round pen unfortunately!!) :
- step forward and step back with me
- quarters out and in while standing
- match my energy, I.e., he will stop, walk and trot with me when I’m beside him
- ground tie

We aren’t aiming for anything big, but I’m wondering if there’s any next steps you guys would suggest? Doesn’t have to be anything crazy, I just think a day or two a week of groundwork/liberty work would be a great low impact activity to add to his routine that will not only benefit his brain but also his groundwork in general!

Only limitations are… I am boarding so the work I do is in an arena. While it is big, I can’t have him off the rope when others are there, understandably. But there are times I can try to be there when it will be empty.

Looking forward to hearing suggestions!

I recently had my horse saddle fitted and have no idea how to read this paper. Is anyone able to help me with what size I need to look for with a new saddle. Thank you

The weather in England has been horrible the last few days and I want to know if anyone else gets to winter, looks out the window and goes "nah, not riding today" because it's spitting rain. I do that. And my horse also hates the rain. She gets so grumpy in it 😂. So instead of riding, I'm sat in the hay barn beside her field, hanging out with her, staying dry. 😂. I did ask if she wanted to go for a ride (we do the ask and consent thing) and she gave me a mare glare and walked away when i offered the saddle... so I guess that's a no lol 😂.