r/SFr4r • • Mar 07 '25

META If you're going to report a post (please do), do it like this.

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r/SFr4r • • Feb 11 '23

META PSA: Don't be an idiot, if it seems suspicious, it is.

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It is sad for several reasons that I have to write this, but, our community has been fraught with scammers as of recent. We play whack-a-mole, and knock down > 100 fraudulent posts a day but some still get through.

If someone is asking to communicate outside of reddit, ESPECIALLY IF THEY'RE ASKING FOR COMPROMISING PICTURES, just say no. We've had several instances where the scammer receives said photos, and then immediately adds all of your friends and family to a group chat on your social media and attempts to share the pictures if you don't pay them off.

Men: Understand that women in this society have disproportionate access to sex; and you're not god's gift to the 'fairer sex', ergo if someone is begging you to send them a photo of your shlong right out of the gate, you should treat that request with the healthy amount of skepticism that it deserves.

Or don't, feel free to be one of the horror stories in mod-mail of someone sending your friends and family a photo of your dick.

Use your head, and not the one in your pants.

Women: Have patience. We sort through a shit-show on a regular basis. In the off-chance you post something that smells suspiciously like the 1000 pieces of scam/spam we just cleared and we ask you for a bit of additional information; calling us 'sexist' in modmail just makes you the asshole and part of the problem. Sorry not sorry.

Everyone: do your part to flag obvious scam posts. Of 45k users, most scam posts don't get flagged at all.


r/SFr4r • • 5h ago

T4M 38 [T4M] #SanMateo - Sexy fuckable CD ASS in the air and ready to be mounted. Any studs in need? Because

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My door is unlocked for you to walk in find me in bed in all fours, wearing a sexy slutty outfit with my cute fuckable ass up you touch it, lick it or slap it. I will go down on my knees to give you the best deepthroat head ever to get you nice and ready, then turn around bend over and offer you my sexy pussyass so you can fuck it nice, hard, and deep, talk dirty to me, spank my hot butt, do me the way you want and you can't have at home, manhandle me, all this while str8 anal p0rn is playing, you have your pleasure, cum loud, slap my ass as a good job, and go back to your regular life with a big smile.

I'm a sexy fem curvy (not fat)CD gurl, 38yo, 165lbs, 5 7”, sexy pair of legs, talented deep mouth, and a great fuckable ass, natural smooth soft skin, very clean and healthy, std free, HIV-, and tested often, condoms available. I’m very hygienic, drama free, playful and easy going. I doll up all the way, very fem, and look like a sexy bitch, but I’m very discreet so I WONT send FACE pic out, but believe me I'm worth it.

Are you the stud I'm looking for? Then send full stats and pics, legal age only, be in shape or at least hwp, be discreet, DDF, married tall older white and black guys to the front, muscle and hung welcome, but everybody can apply. Love all kind of men!

Hosting now and most of the day but the sooner the better. Tuesdays are my play days. Very convenient spot, easy to find and plenty of parking. Great for those married, bi str8 studs looking for an uncomplicated in and out safe discreet encounter. Sneak away from home, work, wife, gf, and sneak into my bed. Visiting town and bored at home, after work? Then stop by and let's have sexy adult fun.

I'm real, are you? What you see is what you get. No drugs, no fems, I do not top, and I do not travel. Only serious people, discretion a must, not into too much back and forth, one liners or sexting. This is for fun only!

Check my profile and adds for more pics!!


r/SFr4r • • 5h ago

M4F 30 [M4F] #SanJose - Looking for a genuine connection

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I’m 30, Indian, 5’7”, 170 lbs, with a fit, medium build, brown eyes, and black hair. I like to stay well-groomed and take care of my appearance.

I’m married but in an emotionally draining relationship. I want to be upfront about that.

I’m looking to meet a woman between 24 and 42 for a discreet, in-person physical connection with genuine chemistry. Open to all ethnicities.

I’m not looking for just a random encounter. I’d love to meet someone I can have interesting conversations with, laugh with, flirt with, and genuinely enjoy spending time with.

Physical attraction matters, but so does feeling comfortable around each other. I appreciate someone who’s affectionate, easy to talk to, and enjoys a little playful banter.

Privacy, discretion, good hygiene, and mutual respect are important to me. No pressure or unnecessary expectations, just two adults enjoying each other’s company and seeing where things go.

If this sounds like something you’d enjoy, please send me DM. Happy to exchange pictures.


r/SFr4r • • 11h ago

M4M 38 [M4M] #SanRamon -Married and discreet looking for similar

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 hey how’s it going, I’m looking for a discreet FWB in the SF Bay Area, specifically San Ramon or close by. I’m ideally looking for another discreet individual who would be interested in meeting up when time permits to make each other cum. I’ve had long term HJ and BJ buddies before. my last situation lasted about two years, we would meet up in his car (had tinted windows) and take turns giving each other a handjob to porn, or he would give me a blowjob. usually meetings were quick like 15-20 mins to keep it discreet lol

im 38, 6 foot 1, 210, 6 inch cut, white, shaved head, tattoos, beard. im unable to host but open to other options. hit me up if interested thanks


r/SFr4r • • 12h ago

EXPLICIT / RAOBJ, RAOMF 34 [M4M] #Berkeley - Oral ecstasy like no other in the Bay Area for men who value privacy

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One of the top 3 in the Bay, if not the best. I'm looking for respectful men who are seeking a session of expert attentiveness—a unique experience focused entirely on your pleasure and profound oral release.

I am 34, fit, and professionally established individual—standing 5'7" at 155 lbs. You'll probably learn a lot by checking out my profile. Reach out and let's connect


r/SFr4r • • 11h ago

M4F 44 [m4f] #Sunnyvale - What do I put here to get the cute shy girls to reach out?

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Hi!

Oh you’re reading this?

Thank you!

Are you kind of shy but still curious and want to .. see what happens?

Are you also by any chance looking for a charming, handsome guy you could trust to have some fun experiences with?

Are you into fit muscular masculine men? Someone to take care of you from A-to-Z and make sure you have a wonderful time?

Someone to treat you like an absolute lady in the streets and yeah, you know the rest….

If so… msg me. I think we should talk :)


r/SFr4r • • 15h ago

M4M 45 [M4M] #SanFrancisco – Fit mid-40s guy looking for a discreet ongoing connection

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45, fit, white guy in SF looking for a discreet connection with another guy who has a strong sex drive and wants something ongoing if we click.

I’m in an LTR where our sex drives no longer really match. I’m very sexual and miss having that physical connection: being naked together, making out, hanging out, and exploring whatever else we’re both into.

Ideally looking for someone I genuinely vibe with rather than a completely anonymous one-time thing. Open to gay, bi, or DL guys, including guys who are curious and want to explore with another man safely and discreetly.

I have pics to trade. I can’t host, at least initially. If this sounds like what you’re looking for, send me a message. And if we’ve chatted before but never managed to meet, feel free to HMU again.


r/SFr4r • • 11h ago

PLATONIC / FRIENDSHIP / ACTIVITY PARTNER 42 [M4F] #SanFrancisco - Cuddle & watch a movie?

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I'd like to meet a cuddle enthusiast interested in swinging up the armrest at local movie theatre, potentially graduating to couch cuddles at home. Would you like someone to squeeze and melt into while watching Godzilla's atomic breath? Find some teenage nostalgia in the romance of Hunger Games? No need to overthink or feel clingy, just relax and let the affectionate expression flow. Melt closer, discover your favorite positions, or genuinely explore your affectionate side with someone who appreciates and encourages the language of touch.

I'm 42, single, straight, and live in the Pacific Heights area of San Francisco. 6' tall if you're sizing up spooning compatibility and the type of wingspan that might wrap you up in his arms. Our paths may have already crossed as I bike around the city exploring pop-up bakeries (calorie neutral?), slightly outside of your glance at one of the cute puppies I train for a local non-profit, peering up from a good cup of coffee near my professional job downtown, or passing on a trail as I hike in a nearby forest.

I realize not everyone is affectionately expressive, causing me to seek out people who recharge and relax through touch. Your inner cuddler might feel dormant or under-appreciated and need some time to fully express herself and realize her full potential. I'm looking for multiple cuddle sessions if things go well, hopefully expanding your comfort level and expressiveness with additional exposure to cuddle possibilities and the existence of a capable cuddle partner. There's no need to hold back your affectionate side out of concerns of coming off as too clingy.

A good cuddle match:

  • Bathes regularly and has generally good hygiene.
  • Is curious to discover the full affectionate creature stirring within her, emerged in her fully expressive and unconstrained state.
  • Has a few cuddle preferences, providing hints of what could be her favorite ways of being held or affectionate expression.
  • Is a generally easy-going person.

I expect we'll chat for a bit about your cuddle, book, and movie preferences, creating an opportunity for discovery even if you're not sure you'd ever go through with meeting. There's a vibe check and a potential need to create some comfort before you're comfortable chatting over coffee or entertaining the thought of watching a movie together. I'm happy to talk cuddle theory and I want to create the best space for affectionate expression however you'd best like to ease into that space.

I've had some good cuddle experiences in the past, ranging from lesbians who like to be spooned to experienced snugglers glad to find someone who shares their enthusiasm. Curious if cuddle bliss is possible? Reach out and say hi!


r/SFr4r • • 11h ago

M4F 46 [M4F] #Salinas - Looking for a Bratty Woman Who Thinks She Can

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I’m looking for a confident, adventurous woman, roughly 24–38, who has a little bit of a bratty streak and enjoys pushing boundaries. If you like teasing, challenging your partner, testing limits, and seeing how far you can push before someone pushes back, we’ll probably get along.

I have a thing for brats. Give me the attitude, stubbornness, teasing, and occasional “make me.” Someone who enjoys making things a littke difficult but knows when to submit and accepts her punishment (spanking, denial, collard, anal, breeded, etc).

I’m not an instant-attraction kind of guy. I tend to develop attraction as I get to know someone. Conversation, trust, humor, chemistry, and being comfortable enough to drop the mask, it matter to me. So while the brat may be what catches my attention, I want to know the woman behind the brat.

I’m 46, 5’11”, 270 lbs and currently working on my health. I’m Mexican and somewhere between an introvert and extrovert. I’m into photography, video editing, storytelling, concerts, festivals, museums, and getting back into hiking.

I’d prefer someone local to Monterey, Santa Cruz, or Santa Clara County, but I’m open to the greater Bay Area if the chemistry is right.

I’m not looking to spend months endlessly texting. I’d rather talk, see if we click, and eventually meet in person. No pressure, no forced expectations—just see where things go.

If you think you might be the kind of woman who can give me a hard time and enjoy getting a little of it back, send me your age, location, and a little about yourself.

Let’s see if you’re actually as much trouble as you think you are.


r/SFr4r • • 11h ago

EXPLICIT / RAOBJ, RAOMF 28 [M4F] #SanFrancisco - Can I eat you out pls? No reciprocation needed!

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Sooo eating pussy is one of my fav things ever, and I like to think I’m really good at it! I’ve given so many orgasms to girls (including giving some their first squirting orgasms) by eating them out. I’m a huge people pleaser and can go down for literally hours without stopping!

People have loved how good I eat them out that some have caught feelings for me! I also make sure to make each person orgasm 4-5 times on average and have never had a time when I've failed to make them cum! In the past few months, I’ve eaten out dozens of girls and given a countless number of orgasms but I’m always looking to give more!

I’m simply looking for someone who enjoys having their pussy ate or maybe just wants to experience cumming from oral for the first time; I promise I won’t quit til I make you cum! Age isn't an issue (18+ ofc) as I've been with girls ranging from 20-46!

I’m DDF, hwp, and can host in downtown! Feel free to send a message if you feel like this could be a fun time and I’d be happy to exchange pictures and all that :)


r/SFr4r • • 12h ago

OTHER 50 [M4F] #Marina - Wifey traveling and I have some naughty fantasies to explore ;-)

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50 MWM 6’2 195 with a great face for sitting on. :-). Looking for a little naughty fun this week. Open to most anything just want to feel alive! I can host in Marina/cow hollow area or travel within reason. Hit me up. Let’s play!


r/SFr4r • • 12h ago

M4F 47 [M4F] #SanFrancisco - Seeking a primary nesting partnership built on trust and chemistry

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About me:

I'm a 47-year-old man in San Francisco with a successful career in tech and a full, balanced life. In my free time I enjoy live music, good cocktails, F1 weekends, and Warriors games. Fitness is my anchor: lifting, Pilates, boxing, and long walks around the city. On quieter nights you'll find me at home with my tiny senior Pomeranian, reading or watching a good show.

Physically, I am 5’9”, 160lbs, and in good shape. Brown eyes, short brown hair with a bit of salt and pepper. Happy to share pics.

I like making the woman I'm with feel wanted, appreciated, and cared for. I'm affectionate, playful, and happy to take the lead—I plan dates and follow through. There's a calm dominant side to me, and I'd enjoy a consensual D/s dynamic if it's something we both want. Physical touch is central to how I connect, so I'm looking for someone with a strong appetite for a passionate physical relationship who's comfortable talking openly about desires and boundaries.

I'm happily child-free and have had a vasectomy, so I'm looking for someone who wants the same.

What I'm hoping to build

I'm relatively new to non-monogamy, but I'm taking it seriously. I'm currently reading The Ethical Sl-t, thinking about how to do this well, and I'm ready for it. Right now I have one long-distance partner who has a primary partner of her own, so I'm looking for someone local to be a real part of my day-to-day life.

By "primary," I mean the relationship that gets first call on our time, energy, and shared life, while leaving real room for other connections. We'd each have the freedom to date others, and I'd want us to talk openly and often about what that looks like and what feels good for both of us. I have a particular interest in exploring together, whether that's swinging or threesomes. Down the line, I'd be open to the partnership growing from two people to three, if the right person came along and it felt right for everyone

Beyond that, I want the everyday stuff: cooking together, catching live music, good conversations over drinks, and pulling each other close at the end of the night.

We’ll get along well if...

You're warm, affectionate, curious, and playful. You communicate directly, take care of yourself, and enjoy your own femininity. I'm attracted to women who are slim and fit, and who enjoy an active life. You have room in your life for a committed partnership and the independence to be yourself. Ideally you're in San Francisco or close enough that seeing each other regularly is easy.

If this resonates, tell me about yourself: your age, location, a bit about how you look, your current relationship situation, how you feel about exploring with others together, and the best live show you've seen in the last year.


r/SFr4r • • 13h ago

EXPLICIT / OTHER 41 [M4F] #Divisadero - ISO size queen

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41y M, 5'11", 87kg. Strong bluecollar construction type salt-and-pepper Latino

Got a thick, throbbing cock that feels heavy as hell. Veins everywhere, shaft so fat most girls can barely wrap their hand around it and only make it halfway down their throat before they’re gagging and drooling.

Looking for the real slut who actually wants to try and take it all the way. If choking on something this thick and heavy turns you on, hit me up.

open your mouth


r/SFr4r • • 15h ago

EXPLICIT / RAOBJ, RAOMF 30 [M4F] #EastBay- Daddy looking for his little

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I am looking for my little and someone that I can enjoy time with and hang out with. Someone to be there for me and me for them in this crazy world. Open/want to a relationship or something consistent but am okay with something more casual as well.

Me- 5'7”, East Asian, and healthy/lean. I do like working out and exercising although have gained quite a bit after hurting my ankle, But if you like a little dad bod, not going to complain about cutting cardio out. Also if you enjoy exercising that’s a huge plus. Gym buddies!

Some kinks: Daddy daughter, pet play, rope, choking/spanking, light bruising/punishment (spanking, etc.), rough, can also be sweet when needed, would love to incorporate a mommy into the RP (ie we have to sneak around and keep it a secret from mommy, or daddy is pissed at mommy so he goes to you). In general I also have a lactation, degradation (pretty big one actually), CNC and of course other dom/sub scenarios like teacher/student. These are just some of mine, there a more but drawing a blank when writing this.

Also love showing you off, would love for you to wear skimpy outfits (literally found out they’re called tiny tops, basically anything that your parents would not allow) when we go out so I can show you off the everyone and make them all jealous ;) Bonus points if you’re a typical Gen Z that posts tiktok dances in said skimpy outfits, I won’t mind and can even help film. This god very well with big boobs lol. I mean it is spring/summer and bikini is coming up, would not find helping you film tiktoks in those cute cheer uniforms.


r/SFr4r • • 21h ago

M4M 38 [M4M] #SanFrancisco - Bate buds

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Looking for other bate buds. Bi Asian dude here in SF. Average build, 6 cut, can’t host but will travel, usually free during the day or early evenings. Looking to watch porn, jerk, edge, and lend a hand. Let me know if you’re down.


r/SFr4r • • 21h ago

EXPLICIT / RAOBJ, RAOMF 28 [M4F] #SFFinancialDistrict - in town from NYC, today - Wednesday hookup?

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Looking for something casual while I’m in SF from nyc for a conference today to the 28th!

I’m 28, 6ft, slim/athletic, white with dirty blonde hair, tattooed, and usually clean-shaven or short stubble. I keep myself well-groomed. Also have a vasectomy.
I’m direct and respectful. I like keeping things clear and making sure it’s enjoyable for both of us. May be able to host at my hotel or can definitely travel within reason.

Open to most ages and body types. Happy to verify.
Let me know if you’re interested. :)


r/SFr4r • • 18h ago

M4F 32 [M4F] #SanFrancisco - Hung Korean looking for a petite FWB to breed!

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Hello! Hope you are doing well :) Been on a dry spell for 6 months, looking for a local girl for help! Tinder has been dry, so hoping ready to get me lucky again.

About me - 32 years old, Korean, 5'9, lean fit build, with a thick 7" dick. Love raw sex with a huge breeding kink. I can host in hotel rooms downtown SF, or by SFO. Last tested in 6/2026. Lots of pics/gifs on my profile!

I like petite/tiny girls who are submissive, and like to get fucked roughly. Asians or Latinas are preferred. If you are looking for a real, consistent, genuine Korean guy as a FWB, send me a message :)

Lets chat, exchange pics, and meet soon! cant wait to see you.


r/SFr4r • • 18h ago

EXPLICIT / OTHER 27 [M4FM] #EastBay - Voyeur looking for exhibitionist couples

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I’m 27, bi, 5’9, average body, std negative, tested regularly

I was invited to watch a couple have sex while on a vacation once and it was a great time for everyone. Looking to satisfy that voyeur kink in me again. I’m looking a for a couple that can host and would like a third in the bedroom to watch them have their fun. Not necessarily looking for a cuck vibe, just a simple voyeur watching some exhibitionists show off. I’m very kinky and into a lot, and would love to see you guys engage in your favorite kinks. I’d even be down to join in whatever capacity is comfortable for you. We can chat more about what that can look like. I’m down to chat, get to know each other a bit, trade pics and meet up in public beforehand. I’m happy to take our time chatting to see if it’s a good fit. A one time thing is fine but an on going thing would be great.

Prefer couples around my age but not a deal breaker.