Hello Reddit! I know that this is probably a dumb question, but I'm still exploring my sexuality and as of now I am still very confused. Is it possible to want to be queer, and not be?
Like, I want to be in a wlw relationship. I want to have the same feelings with women as I get with guys. But it's a different feeling, and I'm starting to wonder if I'm gaslighting myself or something. Help!!!

I'm not in a relationship and I've never had a boyfriend before, but I lost my virginity last year and I still talk to the guy that took my virginity. He's 14 years older than me, and on text messages, I call him daddy, but not even in a joking way, but in a genuinely, I wanna be submissive to him way.

But it got me thinking, would any of you older men feel the ick if a guy did that to you ? I've always wanted to be submissive to an older man, and I know that lots of guys call their older partner daddy as a joke... but I be real serious about it too. Like idk. I like calling older men that because I want him to know that he controls me in the situation. But... how do the rest of you feel about it ?

I’m torn, need a consensus to break the tie.

And yes even if you thought they were both ugly, which one would you pick if it depended on your life. LOL.

So, this is hard to write, but I have to vent and kind of just get some advice.

I (18M) am part of a group of seven people, but there's this guy... let's call him Noah. Noah (18M) and I had an instant click. It was like we were meant to know each other. We have known each other for eight years or so, and I can assure you that we're what a lot of people would call soulmates. Looking at each other, is enough to understand what we think and what we want.

I have always been the stereotypical straight guy: Tall, muscular, a football player, barely passing my exams, cocky, you know. He was always... softer. He has always been short, skinny, blonde, soft, and I'm sure I could describe even the smallest freckles of his face.

He came out when he was 14, and he is quite proud of the fact that he's gay. But me? I never came out. I guess my exgirlfriends kinda thought about it, since not even once did I get hard with any of them.

So, with all the context being said, two weeks ago we were at a party. He never drinks, he is always sober no matter why, but me? I could have finished a whole vodka myself, but that night... I was just a bit tipsy.

While we were talking, he whispered a question:
"Can we go outside please?"
How could I say no to those blue oceans staring at me with that puppy-like gaze?

When we were outside, we just standed near the host's lemon tree. We talked for what felt like hours about how everyone was wasted except us, and how weird it was that I wasn't already asleep in my car.

One touch of my arm initiated a spark in my veins that made me realize that he was actually trying to get closer. I wouldn't stop him, ever. When we both started to fall into realization, we were already making out. He softly hummed and in that same moment, i realized I had to do something.

We went to my car, and all I'll say is that I treated his body with all the softness he deserves. I was slow, I didn't try to hurry up, I wasn't chasing my own pleasure... I was just making sure he was happy with what I could do.

After it, we cuddled and kissed in the backseat. The aftercare lasted around an hour, when we decided it was late enough to get home.I drove him to his place, and he kissed me goodbye.

And now, he won't even look at me. I try to talk, but he always manages to ignore me, and I try to understand if I did something wrong, but I swear i replay it all the time and still can't find any problem.

I have been looking at videos of guys similar enough to him, trying to get off with them... but I can't even get close without him.

I need advice, I really want him to talk to me, does anyone know what to do? Has this happened to any of y'all before?

I was looking for customized LGBTQ cups but they are damn expensive. So, I’m looking into importing single wall double wall paper cups with customized LGBTQ designs (rainbow + specific flags) and selling them at no profit, no loss, basically covering only the actual cost of manufacturing, shipping, and fees.

The idea is to make them available for cafes, events, or individuals without the usual rainbow-washing markup.Before I put time and money into this, I’d like honest feedback:

Would “sold at cost” make you more likely to support or buy them?

Any designs or approaches that would make this feel more genuine vs. still performative?

Any concerns I should know about?

Not selling anything right now, just trying to understand if this approach is worth pursuing. Appreciate any real thoughts

Estaba tranquilamente scrolleando en Tiktok cuando me llega un mensaje de mi ex pareja, mi contacto le había aparecido en sugerencias, lo raro es que yo nunca le dí permisos a la aplicación para que lea esos datos de mi, ella simplemente me habló para denigrarme y decirme que era un "Sidoso de mierda" y que por sidoso moriría solo, es una mierda que la gente no tenga un puto límite a la hora de dejar en paz a otras personas, obviamente le denuncie los mensajes y en Tiktok solo le deshabilitaron los mensajes directos, por usar el VIH como insulto...

Hello! Hoping to maybe get some traction on this petition started by a member of our local Victoria BC community!

**Trigger warning for the petition and the linked substack, the posts are hard to read, please look after yourselves ❤️

We recently had a municipal election in which Wendy Bowkett was elected to Victoria City Council. Wendy denied that she made horrific transphobic and racist posts throughout her campaign, refusing to address them in any formal way. She attempted to wipe her Twitter of her problematic posts, however screenshots were already taken and the ones she missed have been being archived.

Victoria BC has the highest number of Trans/Non Binary residents in Canada. This is clearly something that feels both unacceptable and dangerous for our local community.

Please sign if you have a moment!

https://www.change.org/p/wendy-bowkett-should-resign