I’m from Poland. I was driving home with my mum and grandma when I came to a give-way sign. I was turning left, and in my opinion, the car approaching from the right was still far enough away, so I pulled out as I normally would.
The guy on the right was driving fast, or at least that’s how it seemed to me. I genuinely think he was speeding quite significantly. He didn’t seem to make any effort to slow down, and he nearly hit us. Then he overtook us and deliberately slammed on his brakes, seemingly trying to make us crash into him.
After that, he got out of his car and started threatening me. He said I deserved to be killed and told me to get out of the car because he was going to deal with me right there and then. He looked like he might have been under the influence of something. We tried to talk to him calmly and reason with him, but there was no getting through to him. He kept saying he was going to kill everyone, accusing me of laughing in his face (even though I hadn’t even had a chance to say anything). He also mentioned that he had a young child in the back seat. Despite that, he continued behaving aggressively and making threats.
A lot of other nasty things were said, of course. I stayed silent the whole time. At one point, he took our car key and threw it somewhere away from the car. He also kicked our car door before getting back into his own vehicle and driving off.
I didn’t want to argue with him because he clearly wasn’t acting like a rational person. I decided to give him some space to let him vent and hoped that would be the end of it. Honestly, he seemed so unpredictable that I was genuinely concerned about what might happen if I got out of the car. He could have pulled a knife on me, beaten me up, or done something even worse. Pure madness in his eyes.
Now, a few hours later, I feel embarrassed about the whole situation. I feel ashamed, almost as if I were a p*ssy for not standing up for myself or handling it like a man. Part of me feels an overwhelming sense of injustice.
I stayed calm, didn’t take the bait, and didn’t insult him back. I figured that responding aggressively would only make things worse and that risking my health or even my life over some idiot simply wasn’t worth it. But even so, I still feel bad about how everything played out.
Do you think I handled the situation correctly? What do you think? This has never happened to me before, and I’m not really sure how to process it.