I suppose this is what happens when you remarry and start a completely different life within the same year as your husband dies. It shouldn’t feel that hard to imagine after only a year!

I haven’t been following her too much anymore but I went to her profile today because there was a post in my feed.. I don’t see her posting about her man.. or maybe I’m blind and missed the post where she talks about her being married or did she delete that?? I came here to ask and then saw all these snark posts about the new man and that he is a cheater and an awful person! Was not expecting that! Yikes! Now I’m curious if she’s even with him still

I guess the best way for Shay to honor Tanner is by showing off her legs and promoting laser waxing. Truly the best reflection of his legacy

Some interesting instances of Shay either deflecting or blatantly lying about the GoFundMe. Most of the time, she just blames it on Tanner and says she was completely unaware

Shay has apparently given away Luke, her and Tanner’s dog. At least she gave him to Tanner’s parents, but it’s still awful and solidified Shay’s life makeover. She wants to get rid of anything that reminds her of Tanner

Curious if anyone donated to tannerandshay’s GFM or other campaigns

Unbelievable. She has a thousand dollars in money from her countless GFMs including the AmyLou fund, and she has the audacity to ask for more free stuff for this drop in the hat wedding!

This is a new reel on Instagram by another women named Penny - Shay says thank you to her... Penny says she may have been with him before Tanner died and Tanner knew... listen

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DboygsKkV0G/?igsh=eW51djJueGo4YWdv

I wonder if this means she's cut off or will count off Taylor's family.

Does anyone know what happened to Tanner's dog? Does shay not have it anymore? Or does she just not post anything about the dog now?

Yesterday I watched again the video where Shay was explaining why the picked AmyLou’s gender (sigh). She said it was because boys connect better with dads and girls with moms, so since it was going to be both of them against the world, it made sense for her to be a girl so she didn’t suffer as much growing up without a dad. Now, she said in her last video that she started grieving years ago when Tanner got his diagnosis, so it made sense for her to start dating so early on. A couple of months after Tanner’s passing she was saying she was afraid of ending up alone so that’s why she went on dating apps, where she allegedly met her now husband. If she grieved for so long and she was ready right off the bat to start dating, didn’t she know long before Tanner passed that she would do so? Did she pick (ugh) AmyLou’s gender for her own convenience? Picking genders is illegal where I come from so I find their decision heinous regardless.

Do we think it’s the new man?!?

She liked my comment. Having a man of like 10? months play baby daddy with your baby who can’t speak up heaven forbid something happens, it’s not keeping her safe.

I ate up their videos prior to tanner’s passing and I keep seeing people defending her now saying she is allowed to move on but as a mother who split up from her son’s father when he was a baby due to domestic violence I think it says more that she prioritized a man and marrying him while she had a newborn as a widow. Her followers are defending her saying this was putting herself first but no it was putting a man before her newborn. I never even thought of dating when my son was a baby.

I give this marriage 2 years tops!

Amy Lou definitely seems younger here. Not newborn but not 1 either. I know they've been married for a couple of months already but this guy seems like he's been around for a minute.

Notice how there's nothing in Tanner's original gofundme about getting a full body makeover, wedding expenses, or paying for her new husband's school. Tanner seemed like a very understanding guy, but even he would be side eyeing her timeline and priorities...

Doubt we will ever know, but she always said she would use the embryos even if she met someone else in the future, but why would anyone want to use embryos that are no related to them, but her dead ex husband?

I’ve seen it posted before but can’t find it. All her crowd funding sources for IVF, the final one after Tanner died, etc. I was wondering what she ended up with

The wench announced her marriage. She knew the truth would come out and it did so she got scared and announced. Nice save Shay

The stated purpose of the GoFundMe campaign (at Tanner's passing) was to provide long-term financial security for Shay and baby; housing, utilities, food, counseling, therapy, toddler expenses, medical bills, funeral costs, childcare, clothing, healthcare, school supplies, educational needs, college tuition, books, wedding, moving or travel expenses for school. Donations came in totaling over $820,000.

The fundraiser originally had a goal of $250,000. As donations increased, the goal also increased to $750,000 due to the overwhelming support from followers and donors. At some point, the GoFundMe description was updated to state that 25% of any amount raised above $500,000 would be donated to a nonprofit organization, Rebels Against Cancer.

Based on the reported total raised of approximately $820,000: Amount above $500,000: ~$320,000 25% promised donation: ~$80,000

Has the promised donation to the nonprofit organization been made? If so, is there documentation showing the date and amount donated?

The nonprofit organization, Rebels Against Cancer, has a direct connection to the GoFundMe fundraiser organizer. The GoFundMe organizer (Shay’s father) is listed as the vice-chair of Rebels Against Cancer, and Shay is listed as the chair. Because of this relationship, I think donors may reasonably want additional transparency regarding how redirected donations have been managed.

Additionally, the Rebels Against Cancer IRS Form 990 for 2025 (public information) shows reported gross receipts of less than $50,000 for the year. Since the expected donation amount (~$80,000) appears to be significantly higher than that, I am curious how the organization plans to account for and distribute these funds.

To be clear, this post is not intended to question the tragedy that led to the fundraiser or the generosity of the people who donated. Losing a spouse and parent to cancer is heartbreaking, and the community response was clearly motivated by compassion.

The questions are simply about transparency: when hundreds of thousands of dollars are raised from the public, especially when funds are redirected from the original purpose to a nonprofit that is tied to the organizer, donors deserve to understand where the money went and how it is being used.

Does anyone have information or documentation about the donation to Rebels Against Cancer, the nonprofit finances, or how these funds have been handled?

https://people.com/shay-wright-posts-emotional-response-to-over-720k-in-donations-after-death-of-husband-tanner-martin-11762905

https://www.primetimer.com/news/tanner-martin-gofundme-sees-surge-in-donations-as-amid-utah-influencers-funeral-following-cancer-diagnosis

https://www.rebelsagainstcancer.org/about

https://web.archive.org/web/20250707192139/https:/www.gofundme.com/f/support-tanners-family-honor-his-last-wish less

Interesting that Shay liked the comment defending her, but didn’t reply!

DCP here, my video on this B goes up tomorrow on my unfollowed channel since it's not really about child exploitation. But my flabbers were GASTED at what you have all collected here. This woman did not love this man.. I know i missed a lot, but have no fear, I will do MORE on this disgusting fraudster and grifter. Once you watch it, please feel free to leave more ideas in this thread of what else I need to know. I honestly think go fund me should investigate this as fraud since she bought tits, and other surgeries and is now supporting her new husband... that was not listed in the bullet points of what they needed that money for.