Ummm.. I've never done this before tbh, writing on reddit.
Its just i'm kind of having a mental break and i have no one to talk to.
I'm a 18 yo female, well, my birthday was few days ago so..
I recently got my bac. I study technical english in University of continuous formation.
My parents divorced a year ago, i have 3 younger siblings, i'm the eldest. And i live with my mother, she works btw. Dad got remarried and has a child now. And he's not a big fan of me, at all. Cus he came from a strict traditional familly that hates women in general. So no, living with him is NOT an option.
Ever since i got my bac, mom at first was nice, then instead of a party, she made me celebrate with other cousins even tho they had their own other party (its alright its not like i have any friends) then when the money of tborik started comming, she was taking a lot from it. Saying she'll give it back, almost 15000.00 DA (million and a half and thats kinda a lot) she gave me before that 30000.00 saying thats all what she'll give me, i can choose to buy clothes (haven't bought anything in two years, not even in eid even tho she bought for my siblings) or buy a laptop to study, or whatever, just not bother her.
I accepted, risked 45000.00 to buy laptop ( i had 57000.00 and actually i don't regret it) . After that she started making problems out of no where, she said if i don't work on her facebook page and all she'll take away my laptop for herself or her workers, even tho i bought it with my own money, when i said so, she said its her money cus she gave me that previous 3 millions, i told her she said its my money and i get to do whatever i want with it i left myself with nothing to wear for gods sake.
She said a lot of stuff but then i told her "you already took half of the money before, just don't return it and i'll give u the rest! I didn't hold accountable for u so why doing that for me I'M YOUR KID???!" anyways she folded, but that was the start.
A lot of problems, here and there.
Now here are the new rules:
For staying home, i need to do all chores, all of them.
Any other thing i may ever need, clothes, food in college time, bus money ( college bus doesn't pass on my house), even a bag for my stuff. My problem, i won't see a penny from her. I need to work for it myself. Get a job or whatever. She said that before i even turn 18 lol, and the problem is i'm still a minor in this country's laws lmaooo.
Btw, she takes monthly from the country helps 5000.00 DA from me as her daughter (Child support from my father) and another 10000.00 for keeping the roof over our heads, i never saw any of that money, never questioned it, cus for me she's my mom she's taking care of me (at the time) ofc i'm not gonna tell her to give it back.
On my birthday she wanted to play nice and told my siblings to ask what kind of cake i may want, i told them i don't need a 2000.00 DA cake when i don't have a goddamn shirt to wear.
In the morning of my birthday i told her i was getting out a bit.
She threw a 6000 da at me to buy clothes, but i didn't get tricked lol, i know that game. So i kept it away, didn't touch it.
Its been almost a week, she always doesn't leave any money in the house yet doesn't buy supplies like bread and stuff til the last minute and she's never home so when my siblings come hungry i need to buy them from my own money to eat, if i sent them back to school without lunch she may kill me, but i don't have much money, so i gave them, and told them to tell mom to give it back cus i desperatelly need it.
It was only 100.00 DA (3ashalaf), yet when i asked for it she said my money is her money cus where would i get 100 DA. I told her i didn't touch her 6000 at all its my own money, so she took it back and got so mad and hitted me. And now she's kinda kicking me out.
I regret not doing i9ama tbh..( college dorms)..
Any advices how to support myself..? Maybe to find somewhere to stay? Am i being dramatic?