I have two weens - a 3 year old girl (daughter), and a 7 year old boy (dad)
We have had a LOT of changes in the last year, including moving across the country twice. The first move wasn't too bad, but I did start to notice that our 3y girl started to not like going on walks and meeting new people.
For context - she doesn't act out aggressively but does tremble so so much in unknown scenarios. She doesn't want to meet new people or dogs, wants to be held by me or my husband, etc etc. She used to be so confident and unbothered no matter where we took her. This also happens now when we have people over to our house
On the other hand, Her dad is the most cool, calm, collected dog I've ever met. He doesn't know a stranger. She used to take after him in these situations but not so much anymore
The second move definitely solidified more of this. During the actual drive, she would not eat or drink and wouldn't go to the bathroom either (this was scary but she is good now thankfully)
Now that we are settled, I've tried going on shorter walks with lots of treats during times of the day where there wouldn't be a lot of cars or people out. Also have tried to make sure we aren't isolating the situation and inviting friends over that she knows. But it doesn't seem to have helped.
We do eventually have to move one last time, and I'm wondering if there is something specific I should be trying to do to help her with her anxiety? I hate the idea of another road trip where she is clearly stressed and want to do what I can to help increase her confidence again