r/FlexinLesbians • • Feb 04 '25

‼️ ATTENTION, ATTENTION ‼️

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Ladies, gentlequeers, and stealthy lurkers—welcome to Flexin’ Lesbians! So glad y’all stumbled in here, whether by intention or via an algorithm-induced gay awakening.

It is time, once again, to update our pinned post. Especially since we now have over 40,000 members (holy flex, y’all are absolute units) and continue to grow. So let’s lay down some ground rules before things get too chaotic.

🏋️‍♀️ Who We Are🏋️‍♀️

This subreddit is for women who love women who love to flex. And by “women,” we mean anyone who identifies as such. We do not care what gender you were assigned at birth. Let me say it louder for the people in the back:

IF YOU IDENTIFY AS A WOMAN, YOU BELONG HERE.

Yes, the name is Flexin’ Lesbians, but we welcome all queer-identifying ladies.

  • Lesbian? Hell yeah!
  • Bisexual? Absolutely!
  • Pan? Get in here!
  • Any other glorious flavor of sapphic? You’re home, baby.

Oh, and if you’re not currently in a same-sex relationship? Still welcome. We’re not here to check your dating history like a lesbian IRS. If you’re part of the community, you belong—whether you’re dating a woman, single, or accidentally swiped right on a man that one time in 2016 (it happens).

If you love to flex and work out (or simply appreciate those who do), you are welcome here. This is not up for debate. If you think inclusivity is ruining your “lesbian space,” please take your concerns to a mountain, a cliff, or the nearest large rock—and go kick it.

🚨 Now, THE RULES! 🚨

1️⃣ Follow Reddit’s content policies. If you don’t, the Reddit overlords will smite you before we even get the chance.

2️⃣ Be cool or be gone.

  • No hateful, threatening, or creepy behavior. If you can’t say something nice, don’t say anything at all.
  • THIS INCLUDES TRANSPHOBIC COMMENTS.
  • If you’re about to argue semantics over who ‘counts’ as a woman, save your breath. This is a flexin’ sub, not a philosophy class.

(Exception: If someone is doing something dangerous in their workout, please notify a mod so we can handle it. We’re here to flex, not snap spines.)

3️⃣ No nudity.

  • This is NOT porn sub.
  • If your pic is on the spicy side, mark it NSFW. If it’s too spicy, it will be removed.

No accounts that post in NSFW subs, or pornographic photos, or advertise Sex work.

• ⁠Mods have the final say on tags and posts. Argue with us, and we’ll just add another plate to our deadlift.

4️⃣ Keep it flexy.

  • Your post must be related to working out or showing off those hard-earned gains. If it’s just you looking hot with zero gym context… flattering, but not the place.

5️⃣ No ads.

  • No promo posts for products or services unless a mod gives the green light. Your discount code for questionable protein powder is not welcome here.

6️⃣ No catfishing.

  • Post your own photos.
  • If you’re posting someone else’s (with permission), make it crystal clear in the title.

7️⃣ No minors. 18+ to post.

Breaking any of these rules may result in a temporary or permanent ban. Breaking Reddit’s policies? That’s getting reported faster than a gym bro curling in the squat rack.

🔥 Final Thoughts 🔥

  • Be kind.
  • Be safe.
  • Be smart.

Hype each other up! Comment, compliment, and support your fellow swole sisters, jacked gentlequeers, and beefy babes. We’re here to lift—both weights and each other.

This is the internet—people will look, upvote, downvote, and message you. If anyone harasses or threatens you, block them first and then let the mods know.

And finally: Mods have the final say. If we delete something, don’t fight us—we work out, too. Now, go forth and FLEX, YOU GLORIOUS AMAZONIAN WARRIORS!

🏆 This concludes my TED Talk. Thank you for coming, and don’t forget to stretch


r/FlexinLesbians • • 1h ago

AB FLEXXX Hi, now say it back

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r/FlexinLesbians • • 3h ago

Arm Flex 100% grass fed

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r/FlexinLesbians • • 1h ago

Leg Flex Leg Day

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r/FlexinLesbians • • 1h ago

Arm Flex Are my biceps big enough

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r/FlexinLesbians • • 1d ago

Back and Bi Day Pump

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229 Upvotes

r/FlexinLesbians • • 4h ago

Where To Get Sports Bra and Workout Tops When You're Heavy Chested?

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I'm a K cup and I have trouble finding anything that will fit me for working out. I'd like to start going to the gym soon, instead of just working out at home. Does any company make sports bras and gear for women with bigger chests?


r/FlexinLesbians • • 2d ago

Back Flex I think I'm starting to see progress on my back

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394 Upvotes

Still have no idea how to flex my back though 😅


r/FlexinLesbians • • 2d ago

Arm Flex armed and dangerous 💪

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105 Upvotes

r/FlexinLesbians • • 2d ago

Back Flex backshots go crazy

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204 Upvotes

r/FlexinLesbians • • 2d ago

Arm Flex Arm!

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81 Upvotes

First time posting, kinda nervous..


r/FlexinLesbians • • 2d ago

Questions Queer workout creators/fav workouts

12 Upvotes

Hellooo,

i am starting up training again. I never really went to the gym before, so i have no idea where to start.

What are ur favorite queer workout influencers?

what exercises do you usually go for?

Do you use some kind of workout programm/app?

Just hit me with all you tips and tricks! I am excited to get shredded :)


r/FlexinLesbians • • 4d ago

Arm Flex still not wide enough

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r/FlexinLesbians • • 4d ago

Arm Flex Are my arms too big…?

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828 Upvotes

…because you haven’t seen my GOALS 😬

Edit : this was obviously a joke, I do not think my arms are too big, I’m aiming for bigger still 💪🏻


r/FlexinLesbians • • 3d ago

Started 2 months ago, not much to flex yet

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91 Upvotes

Mostly just impressed by all the insane muscles I see on here. I'm just getting started and it's hard getting a routine but I'm trying my best. Hope to do some real flex in a few months!


r/FlexinLesbians • • 4d ago

Arm Flex Now accepting steroid allegations

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211 Upvotes

Caption is a joke as I got my first juicing allegation yesterday, lol. Crazy work


r/FlexinLesbians • • 5d ago

Push day pump

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395 Upvotes

r/FlexinLesbians • • 4d ago

Arm Flex post upper day pump

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92 Upvotes

r/FlexinLesbians • • 5d ago

AB FLEXXX When I’ll get a visible abs

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118 Upvotes

I’m 66 kg and 168 cm, and this is the closest I’ve ever gotten to having visible abs. My fat loss journey always fails because I literally cannot say no to sweets 😩 Any tips on how to control my cravings? I’m not even asking for much, I just wanna get my 4-packs to show😣


r/FlexinLesbians • • 5d ago

Feeling hella strong

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248 Upvotes

r/FlexinLesbians • • 6d ago

New gym shirt…

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228 Upvotes

Gym days paying off… even after taking a break.


r/FlexinLesbians • • 5d ago

Nice fit?

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27 Upvotes

r/FlexinLesbians • • 6d ago

Back Flex Flexing in the fitting room; how cliche 💁🏻‍♀️

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80 Upvotes

Shocker: nothing fits! :’(


r/FlexinLesbians • • 5d ago

Questions Working out Tips for masc

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r/FlexinLesbians • • 7d ago

Back Flex Finally, my lats show up in the front view

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101 Upvotes

Feedback from my last shows: bring up the back, especially so it shows from the front. So I really dialed in my training technique, and it paid off.