r/TopCharacterTropes • u/Consistent_Boss_9397 • 4m ago
Characters The friends who, according to the story, are supposed to be best friends, actually maintain a toxic relationship.
Harry Osborn / Peter Parker: For many, Harry Osborn is Peter Parker's best friend. However, reading the comics reveals that their relationship is anything but a healthy friendship. Harry is someone who has never known how to handle stress and constantly tries to lean on his friends Mary Jane, Flash, or Peter just to keep himself together. Not only that, but he is so obsessed with his father that if he could get even a shred of validation or a single supportive word from Norman Osborn, he would willingly put his own son's life in mortal danger. While it is true that he has done good things for Peter, that does not erase the bad things, which are much worse. And yes, Peter ignored him when Harry was sick, but considering that happened on the exact same day Gwen died, his behavior is completely understandable. Furthermore, Harry talks about Peter continuously. In the comics, it becomes clear that characters like Flash Thompson or Johnny Storm are much better and healthier friendships than Peter and Harry's. It doesn't help that the worst thing Peter ever did to Harry was stand him up (and considering that happened when Harry was an adult, he can't blame Peter because he wasn't a kid anymore). On the other hand, the least harmful thing Harry did was create robots based on the memory of Peter's parents, tarnish his reputation, and try to kill him. Harry is not a good friend. I understand that he loves his father, but when you let a sociopath who killed your childhood friend and tried to kill you multiple times get close to your children just because of your daddy issues—and you use that as an excuse—you simply cannot be seen as a good friend. Note: I know the person in the image isn't Harry, but it basically exemplifies why their friendship isn't a good one.
Naruto / Sasuke: This one is actually quite well-known. No matter how much Naruto claims Sasuke was his first friend, Sasuke was actually a pretty terrible one. Even considering that, we also had Orochimaru, who did associate with Naruto during his childhood. Sasuke is a character who is not widely liked, partly because his avenging emo attitude becomes annoying, and also because the way the characters around him act toward him is off-putting. Naruto's endless obsession even causes him to hyperventilate. In my opinion, Sasuke and Naruto are not exactly close friends, mostly because Sasuke seems to treat Naruto with contempt almost all the time. While it is true that Sasuke was among those who "saved Naruto from the hell of loneliness," their relationship is not a true friendship. They always talk about "friendship" (Sasuke even said Naruto is his only close friend despite treating him poorly), but to me, it looks more like mutual admiration or obsession. However, they never talked about it. Sakura and Naruto develop an obsession with bringing back a guy who was nothing but a jerk to both of them, especially to Sakura. Her obsession with being "madly in love" with a guy who took every opportunity to humiliate her is infuriating, to the point where he even tried to kill her. To be fair, at one point Sakura did say they had to stop Sasuke one way or another. I understand Sasuke's motivations, but Naruto's obsession becomes toxic.

