Hey guys! Had a rough couple of days and just looking for some kindness and positivity ❤️

(Please excuse my sweatiness, this was a selfie I took after a workout. I don't take selfies anymore as l've grown a bit self conscious of my face over past year.
But I took this one because it looked actually presentable).

I've come a long way over the years, both physically and emotionally. I've worked through a lot of childhood insecurities and accomplished things I never thought I could.

But despite all that, I still have days where I look in the mirror and feel like that insecure kid who never felt good enough.

I know I'm probably harder on myself than I should be.
Still learning how to change that.

Could use a little kindness today. I appreciate any genuine support

I am Richard Gere's nightmare

Hello everyone,

On Mondays you will now only be able to post if you are a male (or in transition) and are posting a selfie. All other posts will be removed by our modteam and you will be given a 3 day ban if you do post on Male Mondays as a female subreddit user.

Male Mondays will start on Monday at around 00:00 and continue until 23:00 UTC

However no worries for our female userbase! You will still be able to post on any other day of the week!

Reasons for the set up of male monday only days:

You might have noticed that most of the post on our Front Page are females looking for compliments. We have noticed that their posts get the most upvotes and that our male contributors get a lot less upvotes and therefore compliments on our subreddit.

A couple of years ago this wasn't the case as much but we have seen this trend increase more and more on this subreddit over the years,

Because of that we have set up Male Mondays. Where on Mondays we would only allow males to post on the subreddit. In hopes of making sure that they too get the compliments they deserve and don't get snowed under in this sub.

If you want to help our modteam with the moderation of our subreddit please send me a chat through reddit