r/Needafriend • • Jun 30 '23

Weekly "meta" thread for casual discussion, complaints, suggestions, etc.

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This is a weekly meta thread for casual discussion and posts about the subreddit.

Seperate metaposts are not allowed since they crowd out posts that are looking for friends


r/Needafriend • • 2d ago

Weekly Discord Server Advertisement Thread

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Hi all, from now on, this thread will be stickied and posted once per week. Please use this post for all discord server advertisements and posts. All other discord-related posts will be removed.

You are free to leave your discord invite link public in this post. However, please do so at your own risk, especially if your server caters to a younger demographic or is susceptible to spam.


r/Needafriend • • 8h ago

To the 2% of people that’ll actually read this

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I could really use a friend right now. It’s currently a little past midnight and I’m staring at the ceiling trying to will myself to sleep ( it’s not working).

I’m in a spot in life where everything feels so exhausting and I’m going through it, but I’m trying. I feel like my friends aren’t very responsive when I stop replying because I’ve always been the “strong” friend, the let me drop everything and help you out, friend.

Anyways, if someone could dm me, I’d appreciate it!
Have a good night yall

FYI; I’m 27F


r/Needafriend • • 3h ago

i just want someone to care about me

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hello i am 19f and im looking for some friends who are night owls. i am also going through some tough times so if you are too maybe we can share some experiences. maybe we can call and play some games as well?


r/Needafriend • • 8h ago

37F, going through a slow-motion divorce and holding it together

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Amicable but sad. Two decades of my life is ending gently. I love and hate that it's not dramatic. I like gardening, oil painting, and my two big dogs. Want a friend who can hold complicated things without needing to solve them.


r/Needafriend • • 3h ago

23F, extremely introvert. Looking for someone to talk/chat.

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23F from India. I'm feeling very lonely and numb now. Maybe experiencing monday blues on Tuesday 😵‍💫🥺.

I just want someone to talk to. Girlies i hope you can talk to a fellow girl or any boy I don't mind (platonic). Please don't spam my dm with unnecessary comments.

Something abt me- I'm very introvert still loves to watch reality tv. Use to love kdramas. If gets connected can be an ambivert. Looking for a good friend


r/Needafriend • • 32m ago

f20 lookin for someone to chat with

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no weird stuff just a bored girl lookin for maybe a new friend i do have a bf


r/Needafriend • • 4h ago

23F Starting over life and craving for connection

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I’m going through a divorce and moving to SoCal soon to start over. I’ve only been in the US for 3 years and haven’t been able to find good connection except for one good friend I met irl. I need more ppl in my life to share life experiences and about daily life.

Little about me is I’m blasian grew up in my other mother country. Big time foodie. Love exploring and going on trips, dress up, doing makeup, shopping, night out, go watch movies, cooking, spending time with my dog, going on a walk, etc.
I also love just bed rot and do nothing sometimes(Exactly what I’m up to rn lol)
Love yapping with people I opened my heart to. Can literally talk for hours if we vibe😽

Kind of looking for ppl from the states especially in SoCal so I can have real connection with potential to meet irl. I’m not interested in relationship more than friends so no creeps plz.


r/Needafriend • • 3h ago

I finally gave up and moved on from her.... But still sometimes those memories haunts me.... I need someone... ❤️‍🩹 Help me to heal....

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r/Needafriend • • 5h ago

20F, awkward introduction but here goes: I like plants, bad puns, and being someone's friend

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That's basically my whole personality summed up. Also into baking and reading fantasy novels. Looking for people to talk to regularly, nothing complicated.


r/Needafriend • • 1h ago

18f Looking for someone(up 20 please dont reach me)

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I'm not cool and pretty much nerdy but not that nerdy? I listen to almost any kind of music and excited about food. I would love to talk about my day too.


r/Needafriend • • 5h ago

25F Looking to make new friends

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Heyy! I’m looking to meet some new people and hopefully make some genuine friendships! I’m down to chat and share random thoughts, talk about our interests, or just get to know each other.

I’m in the EST time zone, so it’d be nice to meet people in the same time zone, but I’m open to others too.

If you’re also looking for a friend, feel free to reach out!


r/Needafriend • • 5h ago

f19

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hello. i struggle with a lot of mental issues and deep isolation, would anyone genuinely be willing to be my friend? anyone. ii ddont have a single person in my life. please dont be mean i know it sounds silly and pathetic . we can chat about lots of things! i play video games so thats fun i guess.. anything. i would also need someone to be patient and understanding with me as im really not experienced in having a conversation or just relationships with people.


r/Needafriend • • 4h ago

F20 Living with a chronic anxiety disorder and need friends

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Hey, I'm f20, from the usa, and looking for long term chat/text friends. I live with a chronic anxiety and depression disorder, it affects every aspect of my life. I have no in real life friends, struggle being in public, and haven't been working because of my condition.

I'm open for calls, voice notes, and messages. There's no pressure for the first two, I enjoy good company in all forms. We can share insta reels, check up on each other, foster an emotional connection.

I like watching twitch streams, posting on my digital diary, stuffed animals, and cute pets.


r/Needafriend • • 2h ago

Let's be friends if you want... 🫴

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r/Needafriend • • 8h ago

Just looking for someone to talk to.

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Honestly, I’ve been wanting to make some genuine friendships lately. Just looking for someone to talk to and Someone I can laugh with, share random thoughts with, and talk about life with.

Adult friendships are hard to make, and sometimes you just need a friend. If you’re also looking for a genuine friendship, my messages are open.


r/Needafriend • • 7h ago

20F, socially anxious but working on it, patience appreciated

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I overthink every text I send but I really do want friends. Into gaming, anime, and baking. Looking for kind, low-pressure people.


r/Needafriend • • 3h ago

I’m 19 Femboy

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Haaaiiiii I am Femboy from Iran and can’t be really myself here so I am looking for SFW only friends preferably +18 if that’s okie


r/Needafriend • • 6m ago

23F COME BE MY FOREVER BESTIE

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First things first, this is a ghost-free zone. I know its Halloween/spooky season, but i stand on business. No ghosting.

About me: I love to travel. I would like to travel more. But alas, I lack the funds to do so.

I hate cleaning. I dont enjoy it, im not particularly good at it either. BUT, I dig deep and will lock-in and clean when necessary.

I graduated university. First generation students rise up. I do have a degree. Am I using it? Ehh, thats debatable. But I do have a job. Bravo ilya.

Hmmm? I'm looking for someone committed to being my friend. And someone who can take a joke and banter with me. That is very important.

21+ ONLY. Please send a description of yourself. Thanks!


r/Needafriend • • 10m ago

22 M anyone just want to talk casually? I need some advice

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r/Needafriend • • 18h ago

F18 UK

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Hiii everyone!! I’m Gemma, I’m 18f from England. Started uni a month ago, studying maths ( yes I’m a bit of a nerd lol). Should probably be studying but I’m feeling lazy tonight so I’d be so down to chat with someone. Would love to chat with some girls if possible but I’m ok with anyone. Sooo yeah come dm me if you wanna chat. Also always appreciate some karma so if possible can I get an upvote. See you soon <3


r/Needafriend • • 21m ago

Any ca student want to connect?

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r/Needafriend • • 21m ago

F18, gap year before college and feeling stuck in limbo socially

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Not quite a kid anymore, not quite where my old friends are either. Into music, art, and thrifting. Looking for people in a similar in-between phase.


r/Needafriend • • 24m ago

25M taking a little break from work and just feeling a bit bored and wanna talk to someone

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Honestly I just figured a conversation with an interesting stranger sounds like a much better break than aimlessly scrolling through my phone lol. Sooo here I am haha. Posting here in hopes I do find that interesting stranger to talk to. Bonus points if we actually click and become friends :) but anyway we can start by getting to know each other and going from there


r/Needafriend • • 27m ago

19F from the UK bored in the rain… (read description)

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As Im from the UK, it’s raining, im bored and there’s nothing to do.

About me!!
- 19 (duh)
- plus size
- gamer
- fashionista
- certified yapper

If all you message is hi I won’t reply x